by Susan Lacke
They were unlikely friends. She was a young, overweight college professor with a pack-and-a-half a day habit and a bad attitude. He was her boss, and an accomplished Ironman triathlete. She was a whiner, he was a hardass. He had his shit together, she most assuredly did not. Yet Susan and Carlos shared a deep and abiding friendship that traversed life, sport, illness, death, and everything in between.
Some times you find yourself reading a book at the perfect moment. Audible recommended Life is Too Short to Go So F*cking Slow last Monday morning. I was sitting in my car, sobbing happy tears, as I finished the book that Monday afternoon. It was exactly what I needed to read.
Disclaimer: there is a good amount of cussing in this book (if you didn’t get that from the title) It doesn’t bother me, but I know some people take offense to this. You now know it’s there.
Disclaimer #2: You will probably cry. This book promises to talk about training for triathlons, but it is so so so much more than that. I promise the tears are good ones.
Now for my review. I needed a motivational read because I’ve been struggling with my own running journey. I’ve been benched because of surgery recovery. A recovery that is much slower than expected and the sudden decrease in physical activity left me feeling down. So I picked up Lacke’s story because it promised humorous motivation.
And it delivered! Lacke’s dialogue is engaging and hilarious. She doesn’t bother readers by laying out her detailed workouts or her meal plans. Instead she talks about struggling through training days, faking her way through buying gear, and the amazing adrenaline driven race days.
Lacke starts this journey as an unhealthy stressed out professor. Her boss, Carlos, confronts her about her lifestyle during a smoke break and convinces her to spend her lunch swimming with him. It’s the kick start to an unlikely friendship, and an unexpected passion for endurance sports.
Readers follow Lacke through her stubborn approach to training, listen to Carlos’ sarcastic words of encouragement, and experience the joy of life endurance racing provides. But we also follow Lacke’s struggle with alcoholism, her fight for self appreciation, and management of the inevitable curveballs thrown by life. This book is the story of Lacke’s friendship with Carlos and how it changed her life.
I don’t want to give any other details away because I feel you’ll get more out of this story if you stumble along with Lacke. I highly recommend it for those needing a motivational pick me up. It’s a solid reminder of how the small things in life can actually be the most important.
Are any of my fellow readers also triathletes? Has anyone else stumbled upon Lacke’s story? Please let me know what you think, and happy reading.